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Any suggestions on how to approach her outside facebook?Hello, Regarding the girl I started talking to on facebook, started flirting with, came up with an instrumental piece of music for (who thought it was really sweet when I told her and she liked the piece as well) and am meeting Fresher's week in two weeks time. We had
Am I shallow because I found him physically unattractive?Am I being shallow? I have just met a guy for the first time on a dating site. We got on famously and really gelled with personality. The problem is, I actually thought he was physically very unattractive to me and didn't fancy him at all. He wants to meet again and I will
Would I be wrong to take my wife's ex friend sexual opportunity?Long story short, my wife has cheated a few times. She put her best friend in the middle as an excuse as to where she was. Her friend had no idea she was being used. So her best friend decides she is no longer friends with my wife. I called this woman last week to see how she's
Anybody have any advice on what I should do?I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just get rejected every single
Is she hiding an affair?My wife started cheating on me 6 years ago. Although she claims it was a 1 time thing, I think she will cheat when she has the right opportunity. I was again suspicious of her behavior and saw her cell phone unattended so I went thru all the numbers and text messages and found
How can we have sex?I have always been a big man however recently my wife has gained a lot of weight making us both big people and we just can't seem to have sex because our bellys get in the way.
How soon is it to say I love you?how soon is it to say i love you - if you do love someone and you feel ready to say it, how do you say it without totally freaking them out or know that they'll say it back? i think he's gone to say it a few times then changed his mind. is this cos hes scared i wont say it back
Which one's the daddy?first day of my last period was july 16th 2008 i messed with another man on the 22 the 23 and 24th of july i got back with my babydaddy on the 27th of july and stayed with him they my due date is april 23 2009 i am pregnant with twins i need to know who is fathering my kids
Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted to remain friends and I've
I have no feeling in the head of my penis, this makes sex impossible! Any suggestions?My penis especially the head has little or no feeling at the best of times. I can masturbate successfully with my hands on shaft , but never really touch the head, as it has no real positive sensation. If I am receiving oral or attempting vaginal sex within a minute or so my
Do I have an infection in my big toe? What made it go green?right what does it mean when a aprt of your big toe has gone green? Is it just an infection? and is it easily sorted? its just down the side bit, not on the nail but on that area and then the bit of skin that goes down the right hand side of that and near the nail part(im
I married too young but is it too late to get out?Hello, I'm 20 years old and I got married when I was 18. I have never been on my own and I've always had to depend on my husband. Now after just two years of marriage, we don't talk any more because if we do we argue. He always talks about how he needs his space and I'm sm
Why is my ex so curious about what I'm doing? She stares and asks questions...ok so i went ot a varsity game with my friends and my ex was there with her new bf. we dont talk to each other anymore but the whole time she kept staring at me. me and her bff were hanging out the whole time and she hugged me 3 times and my ex ran up to and asked why she
He says the chemistry just isn't there. Will this change in the future?I dated this man, age 50, who was never married, for 3 months.We were very passionate and attracted to one another. We never had sex as he wanted it to be a "spiritual experience." However,when I asked him what direction our "friendship" was headed, he stated," The physical
I have to get a DNA test but can anyone help me narrow down the conception date?If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the first 2 weekends in the month
I need help dressing slutty for my husband!Any advice for me to dress slutty for my husband? I do not have the "body" I would consider to look good in slutty clothes. I'm 5'1, 142 pounds.......
Should I be concerned about my ex's drinking?my ex bf and i promised never to drink, because his dad had a drinking problem and so was quite sensative about all that... he would get angry if i even TOUCHED anyyything, and he said that if we ever broke up, it would be me to start drinking first because im 'weak and give
My boyfriend joined the army and I want to go with him!hiya, ive been with my boyfriend for two years, and hes just joined the army, hes been in there for 5 months now, and i cant cope, im worried and scared and hurt that he will eventually be going to athganistan, im hurting so much you have no idea, im only 17 and we both just
My sister makes my life hell! Why is she doing this to me?I highly doubt I could explain years of a corrupted relationship with my sister in a few short paragraphs but ill give it a shot! I am 17 years old and I have a 19 year old sister who makes it her living goal to attempt to make my life hell. Many people would start to read th
My guy says he's not falling in love with me.Ok, I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for as far as "answers" but here goes. After dating a great guy for 3 months 3 days ago he told me he couldn't figure out why, but he wasn't falling in love with me. It's just so confusing because we would spend time together 3-4 days
Since I'm on the pill and we no longer use condoms, he finishes too quickly to give me pleasure.Hi, im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now... I have recently gone on the pill and it seems to have ruined our sex life! Since we no longer use a condom it takes him a matter of literally 30 seconds to come during sex. This means that I get little
How can I stop loving a guy who is "just a friend"?i've fallen for a male friend who i have know for many years..i don't want to ruin our friendship as we are quite close. how can i stop myself from loving him?? i have done so for 2 years and it hurts me...because i see him going out with other girls and wish i could be them
How can I lose weight?i really want to lose weight!! i am quite fat 10 stone at age 14 5ft2 or something like that. i really want to lose a couple of pounds. any ideas.. thanks :)
Shall I go round with some flowers and talk or what?Ok i'm gunna cut a long story short. Me and my gf have been together for over 3 years, i thought everything was going fine, i took her to orlando, florida in april and suprised her with swimming with dolphins which was her life dream, we have spoken about moving in together
Are there any ways to comfirm that he likes me a lot?I am a girl of the age of 16, wanting to go out with a boy of 25. We have flirted a bit, but i know if he likes me enough, will ask me out. The thing is, before we get too close to each other ( getting into a relationship), i want to know if it would be wrong for us to see each
Would the test result be positive even if you weren't pregnant?I was just wondering because I was a little confused and curious; If you are taking the contraceptive pill, it tricks your body into thinking that youre pregnant by the changes in hormones. What would happen if you were to take a pregnancy test if you believed you had beco
Is alcoholism hereditary?last year i sent a question in about my dad being sick, well he died. im going through a stage of being terrified im going to turn out like him. he was an alcoholic. iv looked it up and it says that it is genetic. am i going to turn out like him? i like going out ha
I bleed when I use the toilet. What can I do?I am having a problem, anytime i go to the toilet bloods comes out, it just started for one week and 3 days now, someone should please refare drug to use and how to go about it.
How can I tell if this guy is interested in me... when I'm also a guy...?Life is so strange for me... I am married with kids, and outwardly everything looks great - good job, nice house, loads of friends, a few cars, reasonable social life... A lifestyle others would kill for. But, I've fallen for someone else...and it's a guy. I don'
How can she become more outgoing?just a short story.. Hardly any affection as a child, a "quiet girl" no hugs and kisses for her, tormented, unpopular quiet teen she had no one to turn to, no shoulder to cry on when times were hard, parents that wanted her to be different. Now as an adult sh
He held my hand? What can this mean?i need ur help... there's this guy i like very much, and i THINK he likes me back, since he recently started playing with my hair as a bunch of us were over a friend's house... and another time as we were giving a girl a ride home, me and 2 other guys, me and him sit at the
I can't stop thinking about my height after a comment by this girl?I went on a few dates with a girl but nothing really picked up. A friend of mine ran into the girl randomly at a party and asked her what she thought of me. She said that I was a good person and a lot of fun but not what she was looking for. My friend asked her what made her
How can I separate my eldest son and his aunty?I am the mother of three teenaged boys and also have a recently divorced sister with two teenaged girls. There has always been frequent contact between our families, and my boys have always been regular visitors to my sister. A while ago, my two younger sons informed me that
What do I have to do? I feel like I always lose out on conversations because I am quieter?Why dont ppl actually want talk to to me? im a quieter person but in a work or social situation i will say hi, make the small talk to get things going..am interested in other ppl and ask them how they are, ask them about themselves etc I try to focus on common things to talk
I'm going through the mental stage of pregnancy - how can I control it before I drive my boyfriend away?I'm 28 weeks pregnant and I'm starting to feel the side effects of pregnancy. Lately I've been a witch to my loving boyfriend of almost 2 years who I've just been horrible to. He takes it well, often by agreeing with everything I say (he never did this before) and has nothing
My mother in-law came onto me and I accepted. Now I don't know what to do!About three months ago I was visiting my wife's parents for her uncle's 45th birthday celebration. The party was a great time, and we were all taking advantage of the open bar. I don't want to go into too much detail, but what basically happened was after quite a few drin
My man has lied a lot about his "hobbies" and I don't know what to do about this.My man is not descriptive of his attraction regulars of women or new interests, he claims to be pristine as men go, he has lied alot and done repeated hidden female related actions (porn , small mistakes with othr women) I have found out on own or from someone else, not ever
How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im afraid my mom will tell him im gay
Is it possible to fix a broken marriage and bring its magic back?Ok my wife and separated. She rents one house and I rent the Other. She has the kids. Before this our marriage was like room mate. What if your always seen as an unfit husband by your wife. How do fix a broken marriage and how do you put back the magic or is it hopeless
My pomeranian wont stop peeing on our couch!We got out male pomeranian when he was 8 weeks old. He is now 2 years. We crate trained him when he was a baby and he has always let us know when he needs to go to the bathroom. For this whole week, he just stopped letting us know and went right on the kitchen floor and also
What was your first instinct when a girl wants/wanted you to "finger" her?Hi preferably I'd like it if JUST THE MEN answer?.. What is/was your first instinct to do when a girl wants/wanted you to "finger" her?
How do you get your man to love you again, without giving up who you are?I have been having trouble with my boyfriend for a while now. We have been together for 3 years and it seems like everyday our communication and trust is decreasing. I have done somethings to show him how I feel about him but sometimes I feel they get looked over. I know that
Is it normal to be virgin at 18?I'm a male, 18, and still a virgin but all of my friends aren't. I'm afraid that i will be made fun of for being a virgin if they ever find out. Is it normal to be a virgin at 18?
If he said that I was ugly, then why does he keep on staring at me?There is this guy in my class. He keeps on looking at me. Last week I heard him call me ugly to his friends. I was right there and heard him. When they look at me in class, I saw that they laughed and smile at each other. I don't even know or associate with this guy. However
My boyfriend is emotionally detached. I was raised in a loving home and I'm not used to this. What do I do?Hello..my name is lisa..i am 40 yrs of age...i have been withmy partner for 8 years...the relationship has not been an easy one...in the beginning, he had a problem with jealousy (and of course it was me who paid), he also had a problem with alcohol and used to leave me alone
Why would he said I was stalking him when he was the one who called me?at the end of the school year last year my friends told this one guy i liked him. i was pretty sure he liked me too. so in the middle of the summer he called me. which means he must like me, right?. every time he called he was with his friends and they would always be really
My girlfriend got sick after we had anal sex. What can I do to help her?Hey everybody recently me and my girlfriend had anal and vaginal sex and she has been sick for 2 days straight and she says she feels as if her asshole ripped and her vagina is ripped also and when we were doing anal she was bleeding... She got a fever right after that and i wa
Is it wrong to have fallen for my (dead) best friend's girlfriend?Just to start things off, my best friend went out with a girl for 2 years before coming to university. They broke it off in the first week of university. He then started going out with another girl, and they were going off and on for a year before tragedy struck. My best friend
I think my teacher quit because of me!my tecaher quit and i feel like it's my fault becuase i talked back to her and never did my work but everyone says she wanted a full time job, i feel so guilty it's already almost my third week of school! My whole class was so upset when they found out she quit. i feel really
I like this girl but I think she doesn't like me back! What do I do?Im asking people this because i need help. ok, i really like this girl. but she doesnt like me. i mean i guess she likes me as a friend cause we talk but only during our last school periods. anyway she is really popular. i really like her, i think i might like her too much
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